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June 2014 Newsletter
 
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The Fear of Being Different and How it Stifles Talent

An excellent article about diversity and inclusion by Kenji Yoshino and Christie Smith in the Harvard Business Review (March 2014) identifies strategies employees use to "blend in" at work. There are four and the authors claim it creates a workplace atmosphere that stunts their full participation. Consider the Fortune 500 CEOs: 23% are women, 6 African-American and none are openly gay. Why are there so few diversity gains at the top? Sociologists identified a phenomenon called  "covering," in which employees downplay their differences. It is driven by several forces: (1) self-censorship, (2) internalized bias and (3) pressure from managers. These combined forces decrease employees' confidence and engagement.

Here are the 4 strategies employees employ to minimize their differences.

Appearance: Employees alter their attire, grooming, or mannerisms to make their identity less obvious. "I don't wear my hair in braids so I blend in with the majority at work."

Affiliation: Employees refrain from behavior associated with a given identity often to mitigate stereotypes or negative assumptions. "I have been careful not to say anything that might give my age away."

Advocacy Employees don't stick up for their identity group. "I am Chinese but I won't say anything when folks make comments or jokes about Asians."

Association Employees have limited contact with other members of their identity group. "When I have lunch in the company cafeteria, I sit with the men rather than other women."

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Dale A. Leidheiser
State Program Director,
4-H Youth Development
Madison, WI 53706


Thanks Audrey,
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Thanks again Audrey. I look forward to working with you again in the future.
All the best,
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Audrey's Books

The Gender Communication Handbook –
Conquering Conversational Collisions Between Men and Women

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The Gender Communication Handbook is for anyone who works with the opposite sex. If you are a part of a management team, in HR, or develop corporate training, this book is a comprehensive guide filled with smart advice, extensive research, self-assessments, and compelling true-to-life case studies. More

Code Switching –
How to Talk so Men will Listen

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Code Switching  is a hands-on tool for everyday use at the office. It is a practical resource with how-to steps to help businesswomen conquer the communication nuances between men and women in the workplace. This book explores the gender impact on business talk. - More

You Don’t Say – Navigating Nonverbal Communication Between the Sexes

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You Don't Say is the first book to explore the misunderstandings that often arise between the sexes due to nonverbal communication — and to show readers how to say what they mean and get what they want. More than words, it's nonverbal cues that have the power to improve — or impair — our interactions with the opposite sex at home and in the workplace.

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