Talkers versus Texters

What difference does it make how we communicate, as long as we do? Statistics from the Pew Internet & American Life Project show that if people have a cell, they prefer to text rather than talk. Additionally, the data reveals the younger you are the more likely you will text. Gen Y is irritated by voice mails.

Some experts suggest that a combination of both text and talk is best. However, there is a growing fear that people are losing their ability to do face-to-face communication. It is an art that's becoming as valuable as writing. For example, are we headed for lack of eye contact during a conversation?  The trend toward lack of face-to-face may result in becoming nonverbally illiterate. Even when we conduct face-to-face communication we may be distracted by that cell phone.

Another consideration is the fast growing online video chats (popular more among girls). The Pew survey found that 37% of Internet users, ages 12-17, reported using such applications as Skype, Goggletalk or iChat.This may be one of those "bridges" that captures nonverbal cues. It may be regarded as a "combo" approach to communication.

Finally, can we really build relationship through texting? The bottom line, make time for face time. No getting around it, face-to-face is necessary in both the business world and our personal lives.

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