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                Don’t Go! Mentoring for Keeps ...They 
                say knowledge is coming to know what you have known. I think there 
                comes a point in our lives when we realize we did not get to where 
                we are without a nudge, word of encouragement or push along the 
                way. We acknowledge that we did not do it alone. Who were those 
                special people who provided the right words at the right time? 
                A grandmother, coach, teacher or boss? ...We 
                have years of research that reveals few people are successful 
                without having a few mentors in their career. This variable 
                becomes even more pivotal and crucial for women and people of 
                color. Catalyst studies reveal that “having a mentor 
                is the crucial key to success at work, and it’s the single 
                advantage men usually have-and women don’t.” In my 
                experience as a consultant and advocate for women in the workplace, 
                the single most important reason that among the equally talented 
                and bright-men tend to rise higher than women do is that most 
                men have mentors and women do not. If you are a woman of color, 
                you experience the double whammy. The problem of finding a mentor 
                is doubly difficult. According to Catalyst, of the 2.9 
                million women holding managerial and administrative jobs in the 
                private sector, only 14% are women of color. In Catalyst’s 
                survey Women of Color in Corporate Management, “women 
                stress the critical importance of mentors to a career and report 
                lack of mentoring as a serious barrier to advancement.”
 ...Today 
                more than ever women need direction and advice from a trusted 
                mentor. Statistics speak for themselves. In almost any organization, 
                the higher the position, the fewer the women. The glass ceiling 
                cannot be penetrated without a helping hand from someone who has 
                been around the block and knows the roadblocks! Catalyst has interviewed 
                thousands of women since its founding in 1962-ranging from pioneers 
                to Generation Z and these women have clearly said they need to 
                know what to do to get to where they want to go!
 ...How 
                does mentoring benefit the organization?
 Here are a few ways mentoring serves the organization:
 
                Reduces 
                  turnover Encourages 
                  retention Enhances 
                  professional development Links 
                  employees to valuable information Breaks 
                  down the “silo” structure and allows cooperation 
                  among different departmentsEmploys 
                  own employees as internal experts rather than hire outside consultants 
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                "Where 
                  in the World is Audrey?" |   
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                Did you 
                  miss Audrey at the Society of Human Resource Management Conference 
                  in Keystone last month!
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            | October 
                9, 2007 Hewlett Packard, Ft Collins
 8:30 am to Noon
 Time Out for Jack and Jill: 
                Men, Women and Conflict
 
 
 
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            | October 
                30, 2007Stanford Hospital and Clinics
 Palo Alto, California
 8 am to 4 pm
 The First Five Seconds: 
                A Workshop for Women
 
 
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            | October 
                31, 2007Denver Metro Chamber
 1445 Market St
 9 am to Noon
 Ouch! That Hurts:
 Dealing with Difficult People
 
 
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